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Can I Feel Angry?

March 24, 2024

Universal Group Guide

Scripture Reference

John 2: 13-25

 

Open in Prayer

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Message Recap

Anger is typically a secondary emotion, a manifestation of something deeper. We might be deeply hurt by a close relationship, and the pain manifests as anger. Or, we might have skipped too many meals and are simply “hangry.” No matter what, this feeling is the symptom and helps us identify the underlying condition. 

 

In John 2:13-25 we see a side of Jesus not frequently seen in the rest of John or the other Gospels. He is angry, and He isn’t hiding it. But Jesus isn’t angry for the sake of being angry. When we dive into the text, we get clues. Not only had the temple leaders allowed the courts to be turned “into a market,” but their set-up was most likely in the outer courts. This part of the temple structure was the closest Gentiles could get to Temple worship. Jesus is angry because of what the temple has become–a place of commerce that it was never intended to be, and it certainly doesn’t much resemble the house of prayer for all nations. He’s profoundly disappointed. This entire scene is an affront to God’s plan for His people. 

 

In Ephesians, Paul says to be sure not to sin in our anger (4:26). It’s important to note that Jesus’s anger drove Him to productive action, not to sin. This passage of Scripture forces us to ask ourselves a few important questions:

  • How do we feel when we see the mission of God not being fulfilled? 
  • When we feel angry, is our response sinful or productive?
  • How did Jesus contribute to the situation described by the statement, "Jesus leaned in. He didn’t leave the scene; he was a part of the solution?"
 

Discussion Questions 

  1. Reflect on a time when you felt angry and consider what underlying emotion might have triggered that anger. Did anger pop up because you were hurt, scared, or another emotion first?
  2. In what ways do you think Jesus' expression of anger in flipping tables aligns with healthy emotional expression?  How was this display of anger different from a sinful one?
  3. Reflect on a time when you witnessed someone expressing anger in a constructive manner. What did you learn from that experience? Or, have you only ever experienced anger in an unhealthy way?  
  4. How does the understanding that God made anger affect your perception of it as a feeling?  Do you have a hard time expressing the emotion of anger?

 

    Live it out

    How can you differentiate between righteous anger and destructive anger in your own life?  This week, take notice when you start to feel angry and reflect on ways that anger can lead you to productive anger and not to sin.  

     

    Close in Prayer

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